20 days and 20 nights
…that’s just about how long I’ve been away from Istanbul. And boy has it been eventful! My apologies for not being able to keep up with blogging during that time. Between a go-go-go schedule in NY and lack of (affordable) internet availability in Germany, I think I only posted once. I did write during this time, just not post. So here are NY and Berlin, albeit a little late. Munich to be posted later today… Munich was Oktoberfest though, which without saying, requires pictures.
meet me in Berlin
Our flights both arrived last Tuesday morning in Berlin. Onur from work in Istanbul and me from my week-long visit in NY. This was our first Bayram (Eid) holiday trip together. And in true Onur form, he had a surprise waiting for me at the hotel. Rose petals on the bed, fruit and a bottle of wine greeted us in our hotel room. What a wonderful hubby. :)
Berlin as a city exceeded my expectations, especially in its spaciousness and cleanliness. It was a wonderfully historic city to visit and explore (all can be done on foot pretty much despite its sprawling expanse), but I was surprised with its lack of busy-ness for a capital city. In fact, at times it seemed downright deserted. But again, that is my perspective coming from New York and Istanbul.
Big wide roads, people that actually pay attention to traffic signs and where honking is not commonplace, and I don’t think one person bumped into me the whole time we were there. It is definitely a well-organized and well-constructed city, with plenty of nice (for the most part) and tall people. In fact, even the peepholes in the hotel room doors were slightly too high for us to look through comfortably.
The city has a wealth of history, of which I think we took in as much as we could in a two and a half day period. We checked out the Brandenburg Gate, Reischtag, Alexanderplatz, Potsdam Platz, Bellevue Palace, saw remaining erected pieces of the Berlin Wall and visited Checkpoint Charlie, spent time at the Holocaust memorial behind Brandenburg Plaza, and shopped along FriedrischStrasse and Ku’damm.
When it came to food and drink, we of course did a little tour of some of the pubs and lounges. We even brought home a couple of Berliner Pilsner “souvenirs” for our beer glass collection. And being the foodies we are, we enjoyed a fine dining experience at Borschardt, where we celebrated our 47th monthly anniversary. I can officially say was the best lobster dinner I’ve ever had and one of the best crème brulees we’ve ever tasted. The dining experience was fantastic and made for a wonderful anniversary dinner; at least once we got over the rude welcome we received by the hostess and maître d.
There is also a huge Turkish contingency in Berlin (at about 200,000 people), which I was surprised to learn, so we passed by the occasional Turkish-speaking person here and there and saw plenty of doner kabap restaurants. Although we didn’t eat at any, it was good to know that there were alternatives to pork in this bratwurst / currywurst and pork-dominant cuisine.
Jet lag – oh I didn’t mention the jet lag. This trip to/from NY was the first time I tried out the fasting thing. Colin, a very good friend of ours, had told us about this new study released that if you fast for 16hrs while switching time zones, it is supposed to trump your body clock and get you on schedule with the new time zone asap. i.e. no jet-lag. article here
But let me tell you, fasting for 16hrs is tough – especially when people are eating all around you. I couldn’t do it from Istanbul to NY. I broke the fast about 9hrs into it. We flew on KLM and the food looked and smelled so good (and it actually WAS so good – I got asian beef… I couldn’t believe it was airplane food). But flying from NY to Berlin I was by myself and had already fallen asleep by the time dinner got wheeled around, so fasting the rest of the way was easy. In fact, I think I fasted a total of 18 or 19hrs, well except for the shot of Baileys they served after dinner. Of course I drank water though – I made the assumption that the study was talking about food fasting, so I took that liberty.
Anyway, I think it worked. The first day that I arrived in Berlin was tough of course, because of lack of sleep, but the 2nd day I only got lethargic around 5p local time (there is a 6hr time difference between NY and Germany. And today, the 3rd day, I am fine. Went to be at 1a the night before and woke up at 9a this morning. I think this fasting thing actually works. That or it’s mind over matter. Either way, I’ll be doing this as often as I can when traveling overseas.
So we left Berlin on Thursday afternoon to head to Munich. We decided to be a little adventurous, so we took an ICE train, (inter-country fast-train) instead of flying, which got us in Munich in 5.5hrs at a max speed of 228km/hr (143mph). The German countryside is beautiful – plush, bright green in areas, lots of farms and a few wineries along the way. I’m glad we did this instead of just another flight – it was a great way to literally see Germany.
I’m writing this on the train and we arrive in Munich momentarily, just in time for the last few days of Oktoberfest (coincidence, I think not). So stay tuned for more blogging on that… We shall see what the tents at Oktoberfest brings!!
there’s no place like home
Ahh New York. I never knew you to be such a beautiful place. But absence makes the heart grow fonder, or how does that saying go – you don’t realize what you have until it’s gone. Well NY is not “gone” for me or for us necessarily, but this visit back to NY after 6 weeks of living away definitely made me realize just how much I really do miss NY.
Sure the city is dirty, it’s loud, it’s fully of disgruntled and oft-times rude people. But it’s also a place of beauty, where you find so much talent; one of the capitals of commerce, business and general excitement and life. NY is so alive and really compares to no other city. It is in and of it’s own. NY has so many amazing things to offer, a culture so diverse and a people so unique because they come from all walks of life. NY is a place where I’ve spent the past 7yrs of my life, my adulthood and life after college, where experiencing 9/11 made me a NYer instantly; it’s where I “grew up”, made some of my best friends, fell in love, built my career, found and established myself. NY is my home, NY is me.
Don’t get me wrong, I do like living in Istanbul and there is nothing more important to me than the new life Onur and I are creating. But one can’t discount the missing-ness of a life built in an amazing city that we loved. NY will always hold a wonderfully special place in both of our hearts and who knows, one day we may be back. Let’s see!
So the purpose of our trip to NY was for our very dear friends’ wedding – Jane & Eugene, aka Eujane. They wed in a most beautiful Japanese garden in Westchester, NY. The wedding was beyond stunning and we couldn’t have been happier to see two of our closest friends exchange vows that left not a dry eye in the house. And let’s not forget the party that ensued afterwards – I don’t think anyone left the dance floor the entire night except for when the party ended and we had to leave. We actually got to make the most of the time with Eujane, too, since we flew in a few days early so that I could spend a few girly days with Jane (during which Onur had the lucky job of going to Bed Bath & Beyond for goodies we need for our apartment
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Onur left to head back to Istanbul the day after the wedding, but I stayed in NY another week to visit friends. Two of my dear friends let me stay with them that week, which was so wonderful and gracious of them (thank you Irina/Vadim and Krista/Chester/Sneakers!). In 7 days I managed to pack in a multitude of things and get my NY fix (ahh who am I kidding – this fix will only last me a few days).
My schedule was literally packed. I had breakfasts, lunches and dinners planned with friends, shopping and hair appointments, a chrissy happy hour and a good dose of kitty-lovin mixed in. Crazy busy schedule – I love it! The week absolutely flew by, but not without me already planning a trip back in December.
Just a few of the highlights of my stay in NY: my stays in Brooklyn and Chelsea, fuzzy bedtime buddies in the form of big, lovable felines, happy hour festivities at PS450 with tmn’ers, early morning breakfast at Penelope’s, late-night burgers at the Corner Bistro, wine and cheese at Ayza with friends, coffee with a dear friend before she headed off to Scotland and got engaged!, lunch with a couple of old bosses-turned-good-friends, chicken wings & beer at Bar Coastal, home-cooked dinner by a tremendously talented chef friend, lazy rainy Saturday and the depressing movie ‘The Women’, getting my hair done by my very missed stylist, getting my new Gulec passport, Bed Bath & Beyond… again, cheese and wine and more cheese and wine, bar hopping in the W. Village / Meatpacking, brunch at Sarabeth’s, dinner at Kim’s new place in Bklyn, re-celebrating Eujane’s recent wedding at Irving Mill and afterwards at some fantastic wine bar, shopping shopping and more shopping, eating all of the foods I’ve missed – chicken wings, ranch dressing, macaroni & cheese, sushi (4 times), cheeseburger, cheeeese.
…and well a really big dose of missing my Onur. I guess you can’t have the best of both worlds. Well NY, thanks for a beyond awesome time. I can’t wait to be back around Christmastime. It’s been a fabulous trip home sweet home.